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Well, well ……. I was tagged by my dear friend Sara to write 6 things which according to me should be done before each person turns 18.The rules are as follows –
Post these rules before presenting your list.List 6 actions or achievements you think every person should accomplish before turning 18.There are no conditions on what can be included on the list.At the end of your post, choose 6 people to get tagged and list their names.People who are tagged write their own blog entry with their 6 suggestions.Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them they’re tagged.
As soon as i knew i was tagged, i have been working on what to write …. 🙂 , Am not sure whether i would make sense or not, but the following things i suppose should be done or understood before turning 18.

1. I think every child (before 18, every human is a child,isnt it??? ) should clearly understand that the world in which we live, the air we breath, and the surrounding we live in isnt to be easily trusted. They should prepare their minds for the various complexities they are gonna face and cruelity which is gonna be shown to them. Sure, there shall be good and best things too, but i prefer them believing in the saying – “Expect the Best but always prepare for the worst”. This shall make their life easier ………. 🙂

2. Everyone should have had completed reading the whole Quran atleast once and must have the knowledge of what reading prayers regularly and on time fetches us.

3. Must have enjoyed life till its maximum, I aint saying that life will not give them any more chances but, We dont feel care-free as often and are usually involved in something or the other.Specially a girl, As soon as she is 18, “C’mmon, Dont you want to get married ?” and there starts the whole chain …….. !!!!!!!

4. Have a good sense of judging people, for we dont wanna end up with doing something really stupid and nasty just because we trusted someone who wasnt worth.

5. Must develop the most important things required to survive, Confidence and Self-respect . If you arent confident, people will exploit you; If you dont respect yourself, Nobody will ….. 😦

6. Believe that Love exists, You can fall in love anytime in your life and you maynot even realise that. C’mmon dont we all agree ??? But, Always make sure to fall in love with the right and good person. When i was turning 18, I started accepting the following things, which helped me. Maybe will help everyone here –
– You never know how much a person means to you until you lose them; don’t take anyone for granted.
– To be mature, you have to be an adult. But to be in love, you have to be nothing but a human being with a heart.
– A relationship lasts longer not because they don’t make mistakes,but because they mostly try to overlook them.
– When You accept the rose, you must also accept the thorns.

And i tag – Lubbu, Zios, Adikbongsu and Mona , Best of luck guys …. !!!!


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